Monday, May 04, 2009

so early

4:30 a.m. is SO EARLY!  that's when i got up to nurse julia & get ready to leave for the hospital with matt.  he really wanted coffee- but no food or drink after midnight for him!  i tried to be nice & not eat or drink in front of him- see what a good wife i am? : )

check-in is long & tedious because they have to be so thorough about every little detail- repeat your name, your SSN, your doctor, your procedure, have you eaten anything, no really have you eaten anything... but eventually they got it all covered & everyone was satisfied that they were ready.  they took him back at 7:30, and i just got confirmation that they have begun the surgery at 8:15.

holy cow- that's a little unsettling.  they explained the procedure in more detail than i really wanted, so now i know what they are doing to "begin the surgery."  

crap.

to be honest, i'm pretty scared.  i'm the youngest person in this waiting area by at least 15 years if not more... i feel like we shouldn't be here.  it seems "bad" to talk about, but i've been feeling afraid that matt will die.  i suppose that's natural in any case, and we have experienced a lot of death already the last year or so.  i have every reason to trust that he will be fine (statistics, reliable doctors, hope in Christ), but some emotions just won't give in to rationality.  i'm okay- just dealing with it all.  

a good friend (who is very far away!) sent me a message and said that she is confident that God is meeting us in this... and He is. i have said before that God is not changing our circumstances, but that I trust that He is no less good and no less loving in our lives than during the happiest moments.  He is still present with me, and His presence is stronger than my fear.  i don't know how to explain it better, but if you want to understand better i will try.  maybe over a cup of coffee in a few weeks when this is over...

and the family next to me was just discussing anal probes... awesome.

thanks for your prayers- i'll update again when they give me more information at 2 hours (10:15ish).
-rachel

7 comments:

robbie said...

I love you both and have been and will be praying for Matt throughout the morning.

Anna said...

praying for y'all and love you!

Kirsten McKeown said...

Ditto, Rachel. Love you all.

Dan Allen said...

You guys are awesome. I have full faith that Matt will pull through.

theclowers5!!! said...

i've been praying for you since i woke up this morning - peace for matt, precision and wisdom for the doctors, and an extra sense of peace and comfort for you while you wait. ed mentioned that was the hardest part for him so you've been heavy on my brain! will keep praying and will keep checking for updates!

Lianne said...

Rachel....praying....wish i was there to hang with you in the waiting area. Miss you and look forward to reading your next update.

Greta said...

Thanks for keeping us updated, praying....
just so you know this blog is asking me to spell butsigeo for word verification and that seems so wrong....